These three factors are non negotiable whenever you think about getting married. Here are three steps to “prepare your garden” for marriage. I believe these are things we all need in our marriages, no matter the season of our relationships.
1. Having your money under control.
Whether you’re dating or have been married for 20 years, we can all get better at how we handle money in our relationships. Money is a tool. In our marriages, we have to be on the same page about how it is used. It is critical that you set guidelines about money. Who will pay the bills? How much money will you spend and on what? How will you make decisions about big expenses? If you both don’t agree on a big expense, then wait to purchase it. Money (or the items we buy with money) can’t be more important than our marriages. If you are able, take a financial class together to learn about how to be wise with your money.